Possible divorce and need advice?

I think divorce is imminent. Not sure if he is going to petition it or push me to petition. Either way, I need advice for what to do to protect myself. I am a housewife. I know- get a job. This is something I am working on. I would like some suggestions or ideas to prepare myself. I don't think this is going to be amicable. We don't have kids together. I have kids from previous marriage.





Thanks in advance for any advice you can provide.Possible divorce and need advice?
It would be the best to go through this with a divorce lawyer to avoid any future pitfalls. If you have absolutely no money at all and no one you can borrow some from in the meantime, then you have to ask for your husband to give you some. You can write him a note that say he gave you X $ on this day for such purpose. You do not have to move out right now and you can stay at your current residence until the divorce went through.





Do not think that divorce is imminent. Please make sure that it is really over by asking your husband if it's over. Maybe you two just need to take a step or two back.





Good Luck!Possible divorce and need advice?
Before you do anything, including getting a job, you should talk to a good attorney. For instance, if you have little education and would need more in order to make a good living, it might make more sense to go back to school and insist he support you in that. Also, you need to think about setting back some assets for a cushion if you can. See an attorney right away.
oh gosh honey i was in that spot years ago,,i know what your going through and how you feel,especially when there is no where to go.that's the most depressing right there.where we live we have low income places and rent will vary like 0 to 50 dollars a month.but you have to have some kind of income,check with social services and see if they have a solution for a place to live,i wish you the best honey,,i really do,God Bless you and the Kids.
Start brushing up on your skills if you worked before. If you haven't enroll in school and ask a counselor to help you apply for every grant possible. These are not paid back.


Make arrangements with a friend or family for housing or start applying for aid until you get on your feet. If he is abusive, get out now. Best wishes.
all i can say to u girl..is good luck. im n the same situation. i just havent had the courage to speak of it or hint at even thinkingthe big D. just take ur time and dont rush ur self trying to just get thru with it. i will pray for u. i am so sorry. but sometimes it just has to happen... :-)
Quick question: Do you have access to the bank accounts?


I hope you saved some money. Be ready and be prepared.





How do your parents feel if you moved back home so you can save up.
You can seek alimony in the divorce it depends how long you guys where married
Make sure you get a good lawyer be strong and move on do not let him bring you down .Women are strong and can do anything they want with a little hard work
move on baby! i wish i could find me a white woman to love. i'll bet the kids don't like him much either.
Talk to an attorney, he can advise you. Don't wait, do it now.