Divorce question need advice plz....?

ive been married 11 months.....im 4.5 months pregnant with my first baby....im sick of not being able to trust my husband whom ive know 7 years now.....im only 20, but i feel i cant continue to go through this....would you suggest marriage counceling??but my question is do you think it will be easier to file for divorce while im pregnant or after.....im thinking about the emotional affects that will come after divorce please help...thanksDivorce question need advice plz....?
I would definitely go for counseling first and pinpoint why the trust issues are there.Divorce question need advice plz....?
You don't mention whether your husband has given a reason for you not to trust him. If he has and he is willing to attend counseling with you to try and save your marriage, I say give it a try. If you don't trust him and he hasn't given you a reason, then you should definitely get yourself into some counseling before ending your marriage over it. Some states will not permit you to divorce while you are pregnant. You need to call an attorney in your area to find out for sure before deciding anything.
If you had these questions 11 months ago, why did you go through with the marriage?





You have known him since you were 13, but you don't say how old he is. Was he also 13 at the time?





What you are going through is typical of a lot of expectant mothers. My wife was the same way when she was pregnant (all four times).





You worry if your husband still finds you attractive even though you are going to be sticking out like the Goodyear blimp.





Yes he still finds you attractive.





What I think the problem is though, is you two don't sit down and just talk to each other. Lack of communication is a great evil.





Tell him you love him.





I've been married for 32 years and have been there and done that many times over. You married him because you love him. Now get to the communicating before it's too late.
Wow, this is a toughie. You say you can't trust him. Does that mean he's cheating on you? Or he won't be around for the baby? And what kind of support would you have if he's gone? Do you have family or friends you can count on? And then maybe he'd straighten up when the baby's born? Sorry for so many questions, but you have a tough situation. I would lean on staying together through the pregnancy just to be settled while that's going on. Things change big time after a baby.
If you have decided never to trust him again, the marriage is over. Your marriage had so much going for it but because of the small things he and practially every person you are going to meet does, too, you are being more judgmental than God.If I was single, you'd be the last person I'd date. Your standards are higher than Gods.
Without trust, there IS no marriage. Start divorce proceedings NOW--most states have a 6 month waiting period.


Make sure you get child support.





And please, advise others near your age that its TOO YOUNG to marry!
You can't get a divorce while pregnant.