Thursday, July 29, 2010

Divorce issue need advice?

hi





i am having problems with my wife and she mentally abuses and my wife brothers dont leave my house and my wife says they will stay here . she does not listen to me . i am very upset she loves her familey and i am like money making machine for her. cant go to work sometimes as she abuses me until 3:00am in morning i dont know what to do property is in my name we have 2 kids who she beats them and swears at them.


her family is putting pressure on me that do as they say and her brothers stay here for months. i need divorce quickest and cheapest way so she does not get any money or as little as possible. i am so upset please any here help me.


called cops they never came.





please help meDivorce issue need advice?
Remove your children from the home and contact CPS (child protective services). If you don't make the first move, and a bruise is found and reported, she could just as easily say you did it. Children, when threatened, are often too afraid to point out the real abuser. The abuser has so much fear in them and has threatened them for so long that they're just too afraid to go against them.





As far as the attorney goes...why not opt for an attorney that may cost a little more, but will get the job done right? Wouldn't you rather give your hard earned money to someone who's going to remove you and those babies from the situation, than to the person that's abusing you and your children and making your lives hell on earth!? Think about it.





Her family can be removed!! Find someone in the PD who'll help you! If you go to one who does nothing, find another. No matter how many it takes, it will be worth it in the end! Climb higher and higher in the department until someone listens! Don't live in that...and don't force your children to live in it either!





The Bible says, Suffer not the little children!





God bless you and your precious children. We're praying for you!





GO...NOW!Divorce issue need advice?
Well next time she is abusing you're kids call the cops and get the dispatcher name and id# and tell them shes violently abusing you and the kids and take that to court it will look good on you to take that to court and as for the divirce just tell her that you want it and look for a good lawyer and serve her with the papers and if you're home is under you're name you can kick them all out except you're kids of course.Good luck.
If all of that abuse is going on and you have not called 911 then frankly its your fault.





You need to stop the money flow and get everything out of her name, take pictures, get all this documented by calling 911 and get a lawyer to get them evicted and start a divorce and get full sole custody of your children... If all is true what you are saying, then they are the ones who have to worry, not you.
If the cops won't come to you, you need to go to them. It's you DUTY and responsibility to protect your children. Report your wife's abusive behavior and for the sake of your children, press charges against her. If a stranger did what she did, you wouldn't think twice about prosecuting. Just because she's their mommy doesn't give her a free pass. It's actually worse for your children.


Tell her family to go to hell. You need to protect your children. Now.
First of all you need to move out. Second of all you need to contact an attorney since the house is in your name and tell them all these people are in your house and you want them out including your wife. Then tell the attorney you want to divorce. Good luck!
Hellooooooo.... Get you and your kids out of that house and get a lawyer so you can keep the kids and the house... if she beats you and the kids then you should get the kids... once you are gone i am sure she will fine someone else to take care of her needs... So get out for now!
Look up the number for child protective services. Both you and you wife could loose your children if you do not report her abuse of them. Tell the police that she beats the children. If you do nothing, you are guilty.
Your wife beats your kids?? That would be enough for me to kick her and her family out and change the locks.





Put your kids first and do what you know you need to...for their own protection.
you need to talk to a divorce attorney. kick her *** out of your house and keep your kids. even if you have to take them to the police station with you do it! get them away from that crazy b****!!!!
Well...you need a good lawyer. I think you need to stop being tight on your money and start thinking of your mental health.
take the kids w/ you to a safe place at least.
you can get a restraining order based on hitting the kids, and abusing you. Is she verbally abusing you? have you ever hit her? Has she ever hit you? If you admittingly know she was hitting your kids, %26amp; you never did anything about it, that will not look good for you. GET A LAWYER. Most all lawyers have free consultations. Don't worry about the $ right now. Take action NOW before any more crap happens. Don't sit there %26amp; allow her to dictate what's going to happen in your life %26amp; your kids' life.

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