Can anybody give me some advice about divorce,please?

i need women who are divorced to answer my Q


ive been married for over 10 years,got 3 kids,i never really had a job,been home mom all this time


i want a divorce,but im scared i wont make it on my own,hubby's been the only bread winner all this time,we bought a house ,will he get the house and would i be able to keep it since im gonna have the kids


how do i get back to work,ive got no qualifications,cause i got married very young and at the time being a stay home mom i didnt think it was a bad idea,but now i see it was a huge mistake


if any woman that has gone through this before can give me some advice it would be very appreciated...thank uCan anybody give me some advice about divorce,please?
Im not a female so I apologize but I may be able to help you here. There are womens help groups out here that can helpyou. You will be awarded custody of the kids with child support and possible spousal support too. Now since the Judges dont like the kids to be on the street you will get the house too. A womans help group may may be able to help you get the training you need to land a good job especially in nursing and its huge demand. Now being scared is normal as this is change and change is scary but you need to know that youre not alone out here and helpis only an asking away. If I can be of any more help my email address is thunder_wright@yahoo.com so please feel free to email me and Ill try to help.. Good luckCan anybody give me some advice about divorce,please?
Since I don't know where you live, I don't know what type of services your community has. There are places where a woman can go to get education, and career counseling. You should get 1/2 the home's worth, and child support. I am not sure about the alimony. Please see your attorney and get some additional info from him/her.
It depends what state you live in. Try to talking to a lawyer, Before divorce you can go to school and get a trade, and then get a job and save your money then leave I hope this is an abuse situation if it is go to the police station and dam the house. you will get real fast
Divorce is horrible but i would only do what i right for you and your kids.
It's a reasonable and valid fear. You don't state your grounds. I divorced an alcoholic/ addict when my son was in diapers. He's 12. Divorce can leave a man very bitter and he might become a crappy father, so be careful how you leave, if you can. With some of them, there's nothing you can do.





I'm an attorney and we have struggled financially the entire time, but I was in school when he left, got stuck with a ton of debt and made a decision to run my practice mostly from home to be here with my son.





Factor in the finances, because it's real.
Get a job now and start getting your own financial future in order just as soon as you can. Or, work the marriage out if you can because it will ultimately be cheaper in the long run.





Mary in Camden, MI





NOTE~


happy above is not exactly correct, you will not get ';half of the homes worth'; as she says but half of the equity. So if the home is valued at 100k and you owe 90k, there would be 10k in equity and you'd be entitled to half of that which would equal 5k. BUt keep one thing in mind, property values have dropped so you may actually be upside down in the house right now.
I'm so sick of hearing this. Too many women come on here saying that they want a divorce, but they are affraid that they won't be able to make it because they don't have a job so they want to know if the husband will have to support them even after divorce.





How about being a woman and getting a JOB? Why do you need to depend on him or any man for any reason at all? It's women like you that give other women a bad image. Get your fat bon bon eating butt off the couch and get a job! That's how you can make it.
let him have everything but kids. you can move into a low income housing and go to school, you will get more with the state, if i could divorce my x again i would have givin him everything and i would have started completely over.in the area that i live in they wil even help you buy a house. go back to school and further your education. you will be just fine.it's hard and a scarey thing to be on your own but alot of women have done it and been just fine. you will to.
its never to late to do anything hun i ain't a women but my wife did it with 2 infants if hes a true man he will help ya out and be there for the kids and help ya financially because it will be whats best for the kids he loves them i bet an wants them an you to be happy you can allways find some job somewhere if he does get the house apartments an lofts can be found it will be hard at first but you sound like a strong will woman and i wish ya the best of luck granted i am a man but i really do mean it