Convince mom 2 get a divorce...please give advice?

our family is from a country that has a very negative opinion on divorce and it is pretty much the last option...my dad, because of some money issue with my mom's parents, mistreats my mom aloooot....i mean he doesn't even talk to her.....unless its something he wants like bringing him food....when i tell her to get a divorce, she doesn't listen cuz she thinks my future in education wise would be much better in U.S......and she loves him....eventhough he doesn't seem to even care.....she cries almost everyday....i cry almost everyday...i don't know what to do.....can anyone tell me what i can do....any advice is appreciated....thanksConvince mom 2 get a divorce...please give advice?
Your mom is doing this for you. Don't put any more pressure on her to get a divorce.you are only adding to her problems.Get a good education, get a good job and offer your mom a place to live if she wishes.That's about all you can do in this situation.Convince mom 2 get a divorce...please give advice?
You could get all dramatic on her, and tell her your life and hers would be a lot better if she got a divorce. Tell her the tension between her and your dad keeps you from concentrating in school and other activities. However, to make this more convincing you should let your grades drop a bit. If none of this works, you know that even if you are underage you can legally divorce from your father, so that you can show your mom you are serious about this. I suggest you look at a book or any source on the internet with teenagers rights.=)
tell her to open her eyes and to see how she treats her.


tell her to listen for once to you because you dont want to see her get hurt.


tell her that if he really loved her back.... he wouldnt make her cry almost every single day.
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Tell her that you cry everyday, for her and that it is better to be divorced than to put your kids through this pain. Should she stay married to an abusive man if he causes her children pain as well? For her children, she should divorce. I was in a similar situation, he wouldn't talk, he was very angry, and one of my children told me, soon after we told them about the divorce, that they hoped I would find a boyfriend who would be nice to me. My kids saw too much and at least had empathy for my situation, in time, if I didn't divorce, they would have grown up to treat their spouses the same way.
First, take care of you. This sounds like something where you need professional help and opinions. ARe you in school? If so you should be able to access a counsellor that could give you some helpful advise.





Secondly, your mother will do what she wants. Tell her that you don't want her to feel that it will jepodise your education, and that her safety and well being are your main concern. Be there for her, cry with her, tell her how you feel about the situation, and be strong for you.





good luck! I hope this helps.