My wife has left home. please advice what to do. i dont want a divorce?

i had big argument with wife.she has left home.she says v wil stay apart for 11 months,but wont have divorce as of now.she says we will see if we can stay apart or not, we will see if both of us improve. i have apologised profusely many times but she is not willing to listen. she has rented a seperate home for 11 months. please advice what to do?My wife has left home. please advice what to do. i dont want a divorce?
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Why did she feel she needed to leave home? Why does she feel the need to be seperated? There has to be alot more to this than what you are saying here.... You have to have had more then one argument and misuderstanding in the marriage to have brought it to this point.... Is she willing to go to counseling with you and try to work on this marriage? You can email me at ladyhewitt_1@yahoo.com and talk with me more if you would like.... I will be praying for you and your situation and i hope that things will work out for the best.... I do feel that you both need marriage counseling and are there children involved?My wife has left home. please advice what to do. i dont want a divorce?
she's mine now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
bring your home to her
you need to frist give her room to calm down then you need to go to her and talk this out I mean an 11 month seperation that's some bullshyt! You have to allow her the space to calm down first though.
Why did she leave? Until you address THAT issue, you'll be alone. It's obviously SERIOUS enough for her to leave you. Work on fixing THAT problem first. My sense is that this is not the first time she's had this problem with you. Her leaving may be a sign that you ';don't get it'; yet. Perhaps now you'll pay attention.





I wish you Peace.
now youve got your self in a real pickel.....this is what u do.....send flowers.......of to take her out for dinner...romantic dinners!!!!.....send her a nice boyds bear with chocaltes....singing telegrams....if yiour truely love this women and want her back you better be willing to try. and to try anything at any cost.....love ...real love only comes maybe once in a life time....you better grap it and hold on tight.
You have half suceeded br, with that urge to retain relationship.


Now nothing should stop you.


Woemn geenrally like this attitude of ours.Go ask for a pardon if you have done wrong.


Even if she has done wrong, go and take a chance.


Women are so sweet.It's tehre inside. They love men


who accept her mistakes. I have a superb marraige.Touch wood.
IT'S OVER LOSER
If you really Loved her you would let her go, so get over it and move on there plenty more fish in the sea!
time to get round to where she is and try and talk through the problem and let her know just how much you miss her, and how much she means to you, could be a case of eating lots of humble pie, and being really sincere in requests.
give her space and since your not living together send flowers to her home every day drop off love letters in her mail box send her chocolates to her work and romance her all over again oh andmake sure you have a shave too
wait for a while (month) and then call her. see if it is still the same. You may want to move on
your wife just need some time to be alone.Do you guys fight often? if so i think you two needs some space. it is the best thing to see each separated. it will make things easier better to resolve your dilemma. deep down from her heart she loves you that's why she doesn't want a divorce. give her time she'll come back.
Ok I have noooo idea what you did BUT it must be something big. Give her some space for now. Let her cool down a bit. Maybe thats what she needs. Maybe a month or two or more(depends on what you feel is right), and within those months really figure things out, how you can work on the relationship what you guys can do better, etc... So when you come to her, she knows that you genuinely want to work things out, by having solutions set out on the table. Within those months do alot of self searching and a lot of self improvement to show her your efforts to save this marriage. Hope that helps! Goodluck
dude, hate to break the news to ya, but a marriage can barely survive separate bedrooms, and your talking separate domiciles, like it or not its over. give it a rest and try to either move on.or see if counseling will help.....but if she's got her own place your going to have to do something better than ....... ';ooopssssss sorry bout that...';