What advice should I give my kids if they are going to stay with their father if the father and I are divorced?

Remind them that even though the two of you are divorced that it does not mean that they are not loved by both parents. Reafirm for them that regardless of the adult problems that led to your divorce that thier daddy loves them very much and that he is a good Dad... even if he is a sack of Sh!t it is important for children to have a good self image of and respect for their parents.What advice should I give my kids if they are going to stay with their father if the father and I are divorced?
All you have to let them know is to not feel any guilt for being with him. They're probably with you most often and may feel guilty for leaving you. Just assure them that they need to go have fun with daddy and you'll be there when they return.





Also keep telling them that you and the father BOTH love them dearly. kids need to know that even though the parents are apart, they are still equally loved.What advice should I give my kids if they are going to stay with their father if the father and I are divorced?
watch your language, listen to your dad, call me if you need me, don't wander away from your dad, eat the meal that's offered to you without complaint, be on your best behavior and use your good manners and say thank you, and smile and be pleasant. And hand them a cell phone that will only call you.
Why do you need to give them advise about seeing their own father? Not sure what your looking for here.
Why would they need advice?