I NEED ADVICE divorced?

hi, i have been seperated almost a year, divorced almost 4 months after the divorce we started getting back together and were gonna work it out. We spnt alot of time together during the divorce also. Right now he got mad at me and joined a dating site so i got ticked off and joined the same one i know this is stupid but he told me if i deleted mine we may have a chance to get back together and i said no, it both or nothing we both delete and work it out not just me.... well he got really ticked off and said then we wont ever try to work it out again, i dont understand i did what he did %26lt;- yall i cant figure this out i no im nuts i love him till i cant breath please what do u think of this.I NEED ADVICE divorced?
Hi ms,


It's not uncommon for recently divorced people to have conflicting feelings. As the divorce nears and/or occurs we tend to remember the good things about the other person and forget the negatives. If we try to reestablish the relationship the negatives tend to become stronger and the positives recede. I suggest that you try to focus on what it was that caused the divorce and recognize that you probably need to move on. A clean break should help. Tell your ex that you don't want contact any more and that you're moving on. Then stick to it, even if he calls and seems to want to try again. Remember, he's probably going through the same yo yo process as you. Best wishes.I NEED ADVICE divorced?
I think that he is selfish. How can he think that you will delete your but he gets to keep his and have you too. He as lost his mind and if this is how it was in the marriage then you were right for getting a divorce. What I don't see is why you two got back together. The two of you broke up for a reason and unless the second time around will be different I don't think you should go back. Leave him in the alley were you founded his sorry a**.
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I honestly think you both will definitely fail and repeat the same mistakes over again, UNLESS you both are willing to repair the damage, get some help and grow together from all this SO definitely you BOTH MUST make changes or else you are doomed...





grow spiritually also, grow in many ways and take care of what's really important which is everything you cannot see and touch.





GOOD LUCK
yea, because he is a man, which means i can do it but you can't! it was ok for him to join the dating site, but not you. i think you both need some ME time away from each other to figure out just what you want to do. try some counseling, can't hurt.
Go to church together. Take the focus off your personal desires and start looking at marriage as a union arranged by God. If you want to be in the marriage then you both will have to focus on giving without limit. True love is unconditional.
I think you're both crazy. Why on earth did you get divorced? Divorced people move on and date others and have separate lives.
You just got divorced! Why are you so keen to start over? Think you can extract even more money from him by divorcing him again?
Two wrongs don't make a right. You all sound dysfunctional. Why did you get divorced anyway if you are going to still see one another??? You moved forward only to move backwards!
you're an idiot...and so is he -





y'all are perfect for one another -
when i go shopping at the store for cloths. I come across a shirt that i really love. but as i keep shopping i see another that I just absolutely love. This little scenario goes on for an hour before I finally decide which ones I like the best then buy it...In other words...Just keep your options open because there are many more in the market that will cross your path. Be tough and tell him to **** off You can do better....then raise your chin and raise your voice and dont let this world control or pick on you.....Just be tough and dont take no **** from anyone.....thats it...hope that helps you!!