I really wanna be there for him, but I totally can't relate!! I told him that no matter what theyd still love him, but.. Theres not much else I can think of.. thanks..Boyfriend's parents getting divorced.. Advice?
This could be very tough for him depending on how the parents act and how their relationship was before this. Just be there for him, he may pull away from you or he may run to you. The only thing you can do is be understanding and love him. Provide a stable emotional outlet for him by being predictable with your feelings and how you treat him. Don't treat him special and allow him too much leeway, just maintain your current standards, and be his emotional ';rock'; that he can ground himself to if needed.
Everyone reacts to this stuff differently. It may not affect him much at all either. You just have to read him. I'm sure he'll appreciate just knowing that he can depend on you for anything.Boyfriend's parents getting divorced.. Advice?
My parents are going through the same thing at the moment.. Not too sure what you can say to him. Just be there for him and make sure he doesn't bottle up all the emotions he'll be going through - he might get overwhelmed with a lot of emotions.
im not like alot of people but i didnt care that my mom and dad got divorced
That sucks. Just make sure he does not lose touch with either one. Good luck!
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keep making out with him and hugging him and keep saying u love him...
well just comfort him you were his girlfirend for a reason and if he needs help youll know what to do just say whatever you think is right becasue you know him better than anyone else here in yahoo answers!
Never give advice to a guy if not asked.
Just be there and listen to him.
Support him. Dont argue.
Its got to be hard for him.
trust me, I know.
well its not really ur buisness! all u can really do is b there for him and support him.... thats all u really can do!
srry.......
well umm i think that you should be there for him whenever he needs you and you should make forget about it for a while . you should also tell him that this is not his fault and nothing Will effect on him or maybe just a little .also try to make him laugh and tell him that this happens sometimes but whenever he needs his parents they will be there for him together .that's what i told my friend when her parents got divorced . if you wanna know more or need more help mail me !
there is nothing that you or your boyfriend can do about his parent's marriage. So don't focus on the parents, focus on your boyfriend. He will be needing you more than ever.
yeah you are in a tough spot..just be there for him..listen to what he feels..and support him and his decisions. thats about all you can do. =D
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