Divorced MEN!!! What advice do you have for both men and women that are looking to get married?

I am not divorced man, but I can tell you that marriage is not supposed to be difficult with the other person. The situations you are in, can be difficult... like money issues... or the kids are being horrible, but if your communication with that other person breaks down, and you just don't want to talk, there are problems. See these communication problems for what they are RIGHT AWAY and address them immediatly.





People who talk together alot, don't end up finding someone else to talk to outside of the marriage.Divorced MEN!!! What advice do you have for both men and women that are looking to get married?
DONT! Why rush into it? You can get the same thing not being married, and have more freedom.Divorced MEN!!! What advice do you have for both men and women that are looking to get married?
may sound stupid but read a lot of books on how to deal with relationships. dr. laura has some really good ones.
Just to realize that marriage is extremely difficult for both parties and it takes a lot of work. Also, that your marriage may not last until death do you part. It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.
Don't rush into it because if your first marriage fell through, then how do you know that this one will last. Take time and go with it day by day...
marriage is for life if you dont even know what each of you want out of life in the next 3yrs together ie goals dreams ambitions then how can you spend the rest of your lifes together
Good idea - get your input from people who couldn't figure it out in their own relationships !!!!





Why would a divorced man have any special insight? Other than, she cheats, or I cheated, or we fell out of love, or you should wait, or don't be selfish, etc .....





Do you go to the med school dropouts for your medical advice ?