Advice from divorced men please?

My BF has been divorced now for 2 years. Last year around November he told me that he will always have love for the mother of his child but he's not inlove with her anymore. How do i get this guy to open up to me emotionally...cause frankly i'm getting tired of not knowing where i stand. He also said that he cares for me a lot but he's not inlove with me. Any insight on the matter??Advice from divorced men please?
He probably does still love (or care a great deal) about his ex. He cannot not see her because of the child involved, and probably sees his ex on a regular basis (purely for the child).





He's probably scared of starting a serious relationship, maybe a bit of trust issues. Emotionally he's floundering a bit.





He also really does care alot about you, just afraid to call it love. '





BTW...alot of guys have problems opening up emotionally. This is going to be a very tender subject for him for a long time.





Gotta be easy with him or just walk away.Advice from divorced men please?
He just leading you nowhere. Give him an ultimatum, either make up his mind or say good bye.
Sounds like he got burned bad in the last divorce. If he has told you that he is not in love with you and you are wanting a permanent relationship it is probably time for you to move on. Obviously you have been seeing him for a while now and if he has not opened up to you by now he probably never will.
Because he wants his cake and eat it too put him to the test if he fails say good-bye you say your a good cacth well theres alot of men who will love the ground you walk on. Tell him since he does not want to marry you and there a uncertain fulture your thinking of being single and seeing what life has to offer. Remember this and i'll go the older we get the less deciving we get meaning when we are old we take what we can get why, You still look good find that soul-mate if he dont want to be it.*
After two years, it isn't that he CAN'T make up his mind, it is that he WON'T! It is time for you to fish or cut bait.. make up YOUR mind what YOU want... do you want to always hang around the edges while he goes his merry way? or do you want to find a relationship that has a future? THIS relationship doesn't have much of a future.. guaranteed.
Sounds like the divorce was reluctant in his side. Do you know/have you asked him what caused the divorce? Maybe he just needs a shoulder right now as divorce is final and traumatic. He will always find an excuse not to commit as he is still hurting emotionally and visiting his child perpetuates that hurt.
omg god two years is more than enough time





it is normal for him to always love and care for his ex- wife they were once in love and married





but it is time for him to be straight with you


after two years he should know at least if he is in love with you or not





otherwise tell him to stop waisting your time and move on





just make sure you can accept that he has children and his ex will always be a part of his life
Genrally men say what they mean , so most probably he needs some more time.Meanwhile if u really want him let him know thru words and action that u r always there for him. he will get eventually so used to u that he will marry u .But give him his time , dont rush him into this.Meanwhile use this time to think more deeply whether u really want to spend ur life with him and also accept his child as family.Hope u hav no problems about his child.
marry with other person





first persond automatically refuse to you

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