I don't blame you at all in this one as you were dumped by one sister, then tempted by the other sister with no moral compass. My sister would never do that. So, in my opinion, you should go ahead---screw her brains out--- keep it completely physical---don't fall in love--- then dump her in a month or two! Little sis needs to learn a lesson!Recently divorced and now my ex sis-in-law and me are fooling around. Can I get some advice?
You're both selfish and actually deserve to lose your family and each other. Get your head out the clouds, stop thinking with your penis, be adult and realise what this might cause: a broken, ruined family. And for what? A couple of months of so-called love and good sex.
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Sounds like your ex did good in divorcing you if you always had wanted to kiss her little sister. You're both adults. It will be tough for her and the rest of her family to deal with, but they will eventually get over it. Odds are, she (lil sis) won't be able to deal with the pressure her family is going to put on her. I hope there aren't kids involved. It would be most confusing to them.
Expect some serious family fights in the near future. Personally your ex lost any right to complain about the situation and if you like her sister than go for it. You might ask the one you are sleeping with though if she is prepared for her sister getting pissed (or her family, not that they should care), If she is down with it, keep on rolling.
I would run away cuz that is just gonna cause real problems. Never do things within the same family. Do you have kids with your ex wife? If so then you are with their aunt that could be really confusing for them in the future. Go outside and look for someone you don't already know, and you weren't married to their sister. Thats just kinda weird.
Ok so you were drunk and then married to her relative and now you think you and her can do well? Drunk?and well? two things that will never ever go very well. If you did not do happy with the sister what makes you think she will do well? Do they look alike? is that what you are wanting? a replica of your first, after all she dumped you not you her. Suggestions? Move on
Is it worth it to wreck a family over a ';total hottie?'; How can you know that you are ';perfect'; for each other when all you have done so far is have sex? So your private parts are a perfect fit or what? Come on, man, aren't you smarter than this? Get over yourself and leave this family alone.
You can do anything that you want now because you are now divorced from the wife. If the ex doesn't like it, if she finds out, then that is her problem. Not yours. You do not have to explain anything to your ex. You are a grown man and can see and do anything that you want.
probably not a problem if what you are saying is corerct about your wife just all of a sudden says she does not want to be married to you anymore. That means she has another guy taking care of her. Yoru situation may cause problems with them but it's their problem.. she wanted things to end..good luck
well technically you are divorced and the sis is single right? If I were your ex wife, I'd be uncomfortable to have you back in the family so unless you are ready for the drama that comes along w/it, make sure it doesn't go anywhere.
Well, lets just say some family members did this and the relationship between the brothers was never the same again, afterwards.
The exwife was a complete ***** but they both figured out what a piece of trash she was.
if you have moved on and you are completely over the ex, yes it will be hard for her to hear that you are with her little sister, but be prepared to deal with the ugly of this matter
This is kind of creepy.
You mentioned that you always thought she was hot?
I don't know, I think your ex- was smart to divorce you.....I would not want to be married to a guy who thought my little sister was hot, it is just sick.
daam! thats hot but gross! what r u gonna do? ur wife is gonna kill u and beat her sister!!!!!! at least u got to tap it first right? lol
Family get togethers should be alot of fun.
End it with the sister otherwise it could get very messy...especially for her
Enjoy yourself and let what ever happens happen!
Suggestions on what? You already did the nasty. Both of you had this in your minds all along.
The next family gathering will be fun, won't it?
keep it on the down low
Your ex is the one that ended it so...
Her loss
wow, what's the name of this movie?
Are the sisters close. I don't know what I would do if my sister done that to me. And how much do you care for you ex wife. Do you want to hurt her like that. The sister that you are seeing needs to have a heart to heart with her sister (your ex) to see how she would really feel about everything. You need to sit back and think about is all of this is wroth you hurting them both.
Number one--don't use alcohol as an excuse. I hate it when people do that. Are you both adults? Yes, so accept responsibility for your adult actions. That being said, the two of you can do whatever you want, but I just don't see why you'd want to tread in those particular waters. It will most likely only cause more heartache and strife in the long run if and when it all comes out. I suspect you may just be hitting it with the sister to get back at the ex. Wonder if that ever crossed your mind.
just think how easy it will be at the next family function-- you'll already know everyone-- it may be awkward for a little while, but if you were on good terms with her family, and she wanted to end the marriage on her own, then I personally do not see a problem -- if on the other hand , she divorced you due to some problems or faults that made you seem like a jerk to the family, there will be some serious negative feed back-- I was divorced about 11 yrs ago-- it was harder for my inlaws to accept the divorce than my ex-wife-
Maybe if you got a brother your ex can go out with him! =P Y'all already took it too far, so what does it matter what the ex thinks? She doesn't want you no more, but it's still very nasty to keep it in the family, there's millions of women out there in the world, why you had to go do that with her sister, and even at that her younger sister! WHOA! Drama! All you can do is try to figure out something, see if it actually is going to go somewhere with this new lady in your life. Anyway give it way more time and see where it actually is going, just because it seems ';perfect'; doesn't mean it is, since everything is fresh it always seems like that If it gets more serious with this girl, then y'all both need to sit down and discuss this little ordeal and come up with something that your ex maybe able to understand, she'll be pissed, but since you and her ain't got nothing going on, what's the problem, only one that should be worried more is her sister not you! Best of luck to ya! =) You and your woman need to sit down privately and discuss this with your ex-wife, I'm sure she'll understand... eventually! So best of luck to y'all!!! I guess the holidays should be interesting this year huh =) j/k!
The right thing to do is never the easiest thing to do.
Your choices are to end this relationship and avoid the fallout before everyone finds out about it---or---you can continue the way you are and deal with whatever happens. But understand that your ex's sister will take the brunt of her family's outrage.
Just as a side note here---you said that you guys seem perfect for each other. Sorry dude, but I really question your judgment. You've been going out to the bars, and calling it ';just as friends,'; but you both know it was always more than that, You were very drunk yet you got behind the wheel and drove her home. Not only were you very drunk and driving, but you managed to squeeze in a long kiss in your already impaired condition. Then you drank even more, wound up in the sack with your hot ex-sister in law, and now you think you're perfect for each other. I seriously doubt it, but that's just me. Where I come from---two wrongs don't make a right. This entire situation exists only because of poor judgement... How can that be right?
Well if it all started after the divorce like you stated, then your wife just has to be a big girl and accept it. I wonder how will your in-laws react, they thought finally we got rid of him and damn now he is back...lol
It could get as crazy as jerry springer, but if you can handle the drama then have at it, you might become the reason the sisters will never see each other again. Thanksgiving and Christmas will become very uncomfortable. Good luck.
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